Let’s talk about loneliness. Since Alfie was 6 weeks old I’ve taken him to baby groups. We started off just going to drop in groups to chat to other sleep deprived mums but have now ventured further afield to singing groups. I know they’re not for everyone but they’ve really helped me maintain my sanity.
The last thing you feel like doing on 4 hours sleep is bundling you both into the car but trust me you’ll feel better for it. Even if it’s just going on a buggy walk or to a friend’s for hot drink. It’s a win win for everyone - they get to have adorable baby cuddles; you get to enjoy a hot drink and a conversation outside of “yes that’s a dog. The dog goes woof!”
So to the Mum who’s feeling lonely. I see you and you’re not alone. My house may not be Marie Kondofied but I have hot drinks and biscuits. I also don’t mind telling your bundle of joy that “yes that’s a dog. The dog goes woof” while you enjoy a much needed hot drink.
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