I think when you become a parent and your priorities change it suddenly becomes obvious who your friends are. The ones who understand why you don’t have time to just text. Let’s be honest it’s a miracle we find time to eat and shower. (Sometimes it’s one or the other)
I’ve found that not only have I gained a beautiful baby boy but I’ve gained some beautiful friends. The ones who make the darkest thoughts of motherhood normal. When it’s 3am and the baby still isn’t asleep and you just want to cry and you start to question why you chose this #mumlife You are not alone.
The feeling will pass as soon as that little person looks at you or grabs your hand or snuggles in. Then you remember why you signed up for this life. Then you remember this too shall pass.
For those who can’t see the light and the shadows don’t fade. Reach out to a stranger or to a friend because a problem shared is a problem solved. You may need something more than coffee and cake. The sun will shine again. Just remember #itsokaynottobeokay
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